Written by: Danielle Henderson, Day of Coordinator
Throughout the wedding planning process, it’s important to take a step back and remember why you’re planning this celebration in the first place: your love. With all the hustle and bustle of wedding prep, it can be easy to forget to spend quality time together, just the two of you. Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to slow down, enjoy each other’s company, and create memories that will last long after the big day.
Here are some thoughtful date ideas to help you connect and unwind as you approach your special day.
1. DIY Pottery Class or Art Session
Get creative together with a pottery class or other hands-on art experience. Many art studios offer couple-friendly pottery or painting classes where you can make something special to commemorate your engagement. Whether you make a plate for your cake cutting or a dish for your rings to go in, it’s a great way to have fun while tapping into your artistic sides—and you’ll walk away with a keepsake to use on your day.

2. Create a Couples’ Playlist
Head to a cozy café or your favorite quiet spot and spend the day curating the perfect playlist for your wedding. Take turns selecting songs that have special meaning to you both, and make it a fun experience of remembering milestones, sharing your favorite tunes, and discussing the soundtrack to your love story. It’s a low-key but meaningful activity that you can enjoy together in the months leading up to your wedding day.

3. Cooking Class Together
If you and your partner enjoy cooking (or want to learn), consider booking a couples’ cooking class. Many culinary experts offer hands-on experiences where you can cook together, learn new skills, and enjoy your meal afterward. It’s a fun and interactive way to bond before the wedding while creating a delicious dish together. Pro-tip: Enjoy your creation at a candle-lit table with your newly created playlist to set the ambiance for a perfect dinner date!

4. Plan Your Dream Honeymoon Together
While you’re in the midst of wedding planning, take a break and dream about your future together. Spend Valentine’s Day planning your honeymoon and talking about the adventures you’re excited to embark on after the wedding. Whether you’re planning a relaxing beach getaway, an adventurous hike in the mountains, or a cultural city tour, getting excited about your post-wedding travels will help you both relax and look forward to your life as a married couple.
These romantic date ideas will give you and your partner plenty of ways to relax, enjoy each other’s company, and create beautiful memories together before your wedding day. Whether you’re looking for a cozy night in or a creative outing, these activities will ensure your Valentine’s Day (and pre-wedding moments) are filled with love, joy, and unforgettable experiences.
Need more recommendations for your pre-wedding celebration? Reach out to Port 393, and we’d be happy to help you create a truly magical and memorable experience before your big day!
